Thursday, January 14, 2010

PART TWO of The 2010 'The To Do' List

Hope you are doing well with the first 5 - now on to the rest!


6.   This year I will become fully aware of my negative thoughts, comments and actions towards myself and others. I will make a conscious effort to be more positive and respectful of others and myself. I realize positive energy, actions and thoughts are all contagious.

7.   This year will be the year of action plans. Not only will I set short and long term goal lists but action plans on how to get there. I will write down each detail of my list and follow each step. I will feel a sense of accomplishment because I have taken action.

8.   This year I will live in the present. I will let the past be in the past because the past doesn't equal the future. I will stop worrying about the future because it doesn't exist. I will not waste my energy being stressed about something that hasn't happened yet.

9.   I will spend less time this year trying to control others and being perfect. Neither one is possible and even though I have known this for many years, I never listened. This year I vow to let go of my controlling issues and perfectionist traits and learn to enjoy life in it's messy existence. I will learn to enjoy the unorganized, the messy and not planned life. I will realize at the end of each day - everything works itself out.

10.  This year I will say Thank you to everyone I love not just on new years, birthdays and holidays. I will say Sorry when needed, thanks when it's deserved and I love you just because I do.

11.  This year I won't try so hard to be something/someone I'm not. I will not keep up with the Jones, compare myself to celebrities or wish I was someone else. This year I will learn to spend time alone with myself. I will learn what my likes/dislikes, strengths/weaknesses, dreams and hobbies are. I will become fully aware of who I am. This year is the year of me.

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