SCIENCE of a HAPPY MARRIAGE

BY TARA PARKER-POPE


LADIES' HOME JOURNAL  JUNE 10, 2010
In laboratories around the world, researchers are uncovering the secrets to lasting love.

[These are only 'THE LESSON' summaries of 6 of the most important findings.]

 THE LESSON     It's not enough that your spouse knows that you're proud of his/her accomplishments. Making a fuss over small, good things that happen every day can boost the health of your marriage.

 THE LESSON     Don't wait until you are bickering to turn on the charm. Nice gestures and comments are easy to make---and Go a long way.

 THE LESSON     If you expect a better, more satisfying relationship, you improve your chances of having one.

 THE LESSON     Sometimes improving your marriage means giving it a break. Spending time with family, friends and society is good for your relationship.

 THE LESSON     Protect your marriage by regularly trying new things and sharing new experiences with your spouse.

 THE LESSON     Forget the lesson. Put down this magazine [or in this case, get off the computer]  and go have sex with your husband or wife.