Seems that I always knew the potential of my children, even before they were born. My boys were (are) strong, courageous survivors, who were (are) loving, tender souls.
My part in their lives - I loved (love) them in the only way I knew (know), the way I was (am) loved. I was responsible for them until they decided to become responsible for themselves. They are now in charge of their own lives (and those of their children).
Was I super mom - no. -- Are they super guys - yes.
Sometimes parents feel guilty for "not doing it right". We can't be held accountable for something we did not know. With knowledge comes responsibility. "If I knew then what I know now....". Well, I didn't!
So, could I have done things better - NO. -- Can I do things better - YES.
You are familiar with the word 'repent' (dictionary = remorse, regret). Another interpretation = turn around and go the other way. Guilt is a 'killer'. Turn around = Get rid of it; forgive, apologize, explain, make amends, whatever it takes to forgive yourself.
Once you are facing the right direction, go forward.
P.S. Now, my guys are teaching me - isn't it wonderful!
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Isn't it ironic that you're most qualified to raise childeren once they're finally grown and have children of their own?
Fortunately, love covers all.
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